Friday, May 21, 2010

The Hedgehog's Dilemma

"The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is an analogy about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs all seek to become close to one another in order to share their heat during cold weather. However, once accomplished, they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp quills. They must step away from one another. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur for reasons which they cannot avoid.

The hedgehog's dilemma suggests that despite goodwill, human intimacy cannot occur without substantial mutual harm, and what results is cautious behavior and weak relationships."


-copied from wikipedia

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8 comments:

  1. 人不能像動物一樣活著,而應該追求知識和美德.................................................................

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  2. 人有兩眼一舌,是為了觀察倍於說話的緣故。............................................................

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  3. 每次看完你的文章,總是回味許久,要經常發表喔。..................................................................

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  4. thank you all so much for your comments. i am glad to have sparked an interest in you. i try to use google translate to understand your comments but i fear sometimes that your words may get lost in translation.

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